GUJARATI WEDDINGS

A Gujarati engagement highlight, from the chandlo to the rings

In many Gujarati families the engagement, often called the sagai, is the first formal meeting of the two families as relatives-to-be. Common moments include the bride's family visiting with a matli of sweets and applying a chandlo on the groom's forehead, gifts passing between the families, the ring exchange, and gol dhana, jaggery and coriander seeds shared to mark the agreement. Upload the engagement footage as its own WeddingEditor project, name the people and moments in the preferences, and WeddingEditor's AI editing makes a Highlight Reel of about 5 minutes or a Social Teaser.

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Last updated October 2026

How to get a engagement highlight

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    Upload the engagement as its own project

    Create a project just for the sagai so it gets its own edit, separate from the wedding. Upload the files from every camera you used at the home or hall. You do not need to sort or rename anything, and each file can be up to 5 GB.

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    Say who is who

    The two families meet in numbers, so name the parents, the person applying the chandlo, any elder giving blessings and the siblings who matter. List the chandlo, gift exchange, rings and gol dhana in the moments the edit must include, and note anything the family would rather keep private.

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    Pay, then watch and revise

    Buy One Wedding or use a credit and start processing. It typically takes 24 to 72 hours, and the edit is then delivered to your project. Download the 1080p MP4, and email up to two rounds of notes from the app if something needs changing.

Moments of a Gujarati engagement to list

Put these in the must-include question, listed in the order the afternoon ran.

The families arriving

The bride's family coming in with the matli and gift trays, and the welcome from the groom's side.

The chandlo

The red mark applied to the groom's forehead, often by the bride's father, with blessings.

Gifts between the families

Clothes, sweets and gifts exchanged, often opened or presented one by one.

The ring exchange

The couple placing rings on each other's hands, usually the center of the event.

Gol dhana

Jaggery and coriander seeds handed round to mark the engagement, if the family includes it.

Blessings from elders

Grandparents and elders blessing the couple, sometimes with money placed in their hands.

What happens at a Gujarati engagement, in order

Engagement customs differ between communities and families, and many families shorten or combine them. Check the order with the couple beforehand.

1. Arrival and welcome

The visiting family arrives, often with a decorated steel pot of sweets, the matli, and trays of gifts. The hosts welcome them at the door.

2. Chandlo matli

In many families the bride's father applies a chandlo to the groom's forehead and offers the matli, a sign that the families accept the match.

3. Gifts and rings

Gifts are exchanged, and the couple exchanges rings, often seated together in front of both families.

4. Gol dhana and blessings

Jaggery and coriander seeds are shared with guests, and elders bless the couple. A meal or small celebration often follows.

A short film, not the whole afternoon

The engagement edit is a Highlight Reel of about 5 minutes or a Social Teaser, so give the AI editing the handful of moments that carry the event.

Voices as recorded

Blessings, laughter and any speeches stay as your cameras recorded them, with music alongside, balanced by your audio preference.

Parts of the engagement and what to note in the preferences

Part of the eventWhat it looks or sounds likeWhat to note in the preferences
ArrivalFamilies entering with trays and the matli"Open on the matli being carried in."
ChandloThe red tilak on the groom's forehead"Bride's father applying the chandlo, must include."
Gift exchangeSaris, clothes and sweets presented"Keep this short, two or three gifts."
RingsThe couple exchanging rings"Both rings, close on the hands."
Gol dhanaSeeds and jaggery passed to guests"Include if it is clear in the footage."
BlessingsElders blessing the couple"Groom's grandmother blessing them."

What is a Gujarati engagement?

A Gujarati engagement, often called the sagai, is the ceremony at which the two families formally agree to the marriage, with rituals such as the chandlo, the exchange of gifts and rings, and the sharing of gol dhana.

It is not the wedding ceremony itself, and it is separate from the mandvo mahurat or Ganesh puja that many families hold to begin the wedding rites. Some families hold the engagement months before the wedding, others a day or two before.

Engagement highlight questions

Can the engagement be a separate film from the wedding?

Yes. Make a project for the engagement alone. The night then becomes a film of its own, paid for with a separate purchase or credit.

What if the chandlo happens quickly?

Name it in the moments that must be included and describe who applies it. The AI editing can only use what you filmed, so a clear angle on the groom's forehead helps.

The engagement was months ago. Can I still send it?

Yes. Upload the footage whenever you are ready; the project does not depend on the wedding date.

Can I combine the engagement and the wedding in one highlight?

Yes, if both are uploaded to the same project. The edit then covers both events within about 5 minutes, so rank the engagement moments you most want.

Who edits the engagement film?

WeddingEditor's AI editing makes it, and it is delivered to your project.

Will the edit be sent to the family?

No. WeddingEditor never sends anything to your couple or their family. You download the edit and deliver it yourself.

Does WeddingEditor decide how the gol dhana is presented?

No. How the gol dhana and the exchange of gifts are shown is for the two families to decide, and WeddingEditor does not decide it. Its AI editing follows the moments you list and the footage you send.

The families meet. Give that its own film

Upload the sagai footage, list the chandlo and the rings, and let the AI editing finish the edit.

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